Mary Lou Benitz (McKibben) passed away in Petersburg, peacefully on Feb. 14, 2026, Valentine’s Day, a fitting day for someone whose life was defined by love.
Mary was born on Aug. 7, 1944, in Wrangell to Al and Lena McKibben (Ellis).
Mary was very proud of her Wrangell heritage and told the story of her tearful move to Petersburg during her high school years.
She later met Earl Benitz at the cannery — Earl was working in the cold storage and Mary in the egg room. In 1964, Mary married the love of her life, Earl Nelson Benitz, and together they built a life first in Cordova and then in Earl’s hometown, Petersburg.
They were blessed with two sons, Alan and David, who were the pride and joy of Mary’s life. Her family continued to grow to include numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren. “She was a devoted wife, a loving mother and a proud grandmother and great-grandmother,” her family wrote.
Mary was also a wonderful correspondent. She faithfully sent beautiful letters and thoughtful cards, each one with warmth and sincerity. Her handwritten notes were small treasures that reflected her caring heart and desire to stay connected with those she loved.
After retirement, Mary and Earl spent most of their years at the family homestead up the Stikine River, on Farm Island. That homestead was more than a home, it was her sanctuary. She loved her life there surrounded by nature, family and the quiet rhythms of the river. She was especially grateful to spend some of her final summers in the place that meant so much to her and Earl.
An avid reader and lifelong puzzle enthusiast, Mary found joy in books and puzzle-making throughout her entire life. Even during her time in long-term care, she continued to enjoy reading and working on puzzles and activities that kept her mind active and brought her comfort.
Her family wrote, “Mary will be remembered for her gentle spirit, her deep devotion to family and her genuine love for others. Though she will be deeply missed, her legacy lives on in the strong family she nurtured and the many lives she touched with kindness and grace.”
She is preceded in death by her husband, Earl Benitz; sister Marlene Summerfield; and brother Skip McKibben.
A celebration of life will be announced at a later date.
